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The Philosopher’s Stone: Defining Home

By Francisco Luis Gonzalez

Is “homelessness” the right term to use for being without a place to live?  Perhaps it should be “shelterlessness”, or “bedlessness” or “rooflessness”. Having no home implies a loss greater than a mere place to live. But let’s not tinker with the word, because, after all, it is the right word —it just needs to be understood: sometimes words, out of common usage, lose the poignancy of meaning. What is a home then? Is it the place where one feels safe, reflects on the memories of the past, and grieves its loss when it is lost?  But for many, such a home never existed; it cannot be lost because it was never found.  One can have a place to live and yet be internally homeless. Many search all their lives for the “dream”—while others grieve its loss when it was theirs for a short season: a happy childhood marred by tragedy or altered by a multitude of other factors which destroyed its hope.

A home then can be a tent, a cardboard box, or the inside of a culvert.  What is needed is to feel safe, to have the liberty to dream, and to be surrounded by friends (sometimes friends are closer than family). Ending homelessness may be commonly associated with acquiring houses or apartments, but it really has to do with healing the emotional wounds that somehow, in the downward spiral of society, poverty and materialism afflict us. Take a lesson from the birds. They build comfortable nests, but if there is too much human interference they will abandon them! A home is much more than a place to ruffle feathers­—home is where our dreams are.

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Who is George Hunt?

By Deacon Ricky Brightman

The George Hunt HELP Center is well known to the homeless population.  Our hospitality center has been at the same location, 121 Mathewson Street, for almost twenty years, offering coffee/juice, clean used clothing, personal toiletries, information and referral, understanding and safety.  Now, who was George Hunt?

George Hunt was the Episcopal Bishop of Rhode Island until 1995 and was supportive of efforts to help the homeless, especially with the idea of creating an inner city drop-in center.  Bishop Hunt was interested in government and the problem of ethical leadership at the local and state level.  He often could be found at the State House as a witness and advocate for justice for people living on the edges of society.  It is very fitting that the Center was named after him as he fully supported this mission. Continue reading ‘Who is George Hunt?’

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Hello, I Must Be Going

By Jim Gillen

In the land of recovery, as in life, change is inevitable. Sometimes 
change is hard, scary, the unknown. Even worse, the projection of 
change, of the future can drive one up the wall. 
When folks come up to the door of recovery, whatever brings them to that 
door, the fear of change, of a monumental, seemingly impossible hill to 
climb can be quite daunting. 
When I think back, since childhood I was putting a huge amount of effort into 
taking the “easy” way out, or so it seemed. 
It always seems to come back to fear. Projection of a future not yet 
here, is just that … well it’s not here, yet Fear plays a big role.

We think, “How am I going to fix this, get that done? Why can’t it be how 
it was?” It is hard but familiar. And that can keep us stuck in 
neutral… or reverse! 
Life is funny that way…change happens. I’ve found that the best way to 
face change is to go with it. 
What’s any of this got to do with recovery? It’s all recovery. It’s a way 
of life. It’s change.

Hello: Over the past year, my life has seen some changes. Good ones to 
be sure, just different. As I write this, I am waiting for my third 
grandchild to be born, most any day now. One will be a year old in 
August and one born in April… 
What will this new one be like? We know the gender and the name. But 
what will he be like? How will he feel about change? Hmmm, I wonder. Continue reading ‘Hello, I Must Be Going’

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Recovery is Possible… One Day at a Time

By Linda Paige

Have you ever felt like life was slipping by and everything felt distorted? Maybe it seemed like people didn’t look right to you? I don’t know. Maybe they had an extra head, extra arm or just walking abnormal…like upside down? Okay, if you need to laugh, go ahead, it’s alright…I’m laughing too a little bit while writing this.

Well my friend, this entry may have started out funny but what I am about to write is NO LAUGHING MATTER.

Today I would like to write about ADDICTION. I imagine if you really think about it, ANYTHING in life can become an addiction. For example: drugs, alcohol, sex, caffeine, sugar, people, places and things. It doesn’t take long to become addicted if you lose “CONTROL” over a situation. I speak from experience. Continue reading ‘Recovery is Possible… One Day at a Time’

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New Revisions to Rhode Island Expungement Rules Become Law

By Kristen Sherman Esq.

The House and the Senate recently passed companion bills that would enable more convicted criminals to get their records sealed through a process known as expungement. Current Rhode Island law allows judges to permanently seal from public view the record of nonviolent crimes by first offenders.

Eligibility for expungement varies depending on one’s criminal record. One convicted of a misdemeanor is eligible for expungement five years after completion of his sentence, while one convicted of a felony must wait 10 years after the completion of his sentence to apply for expungement. Continue reading ‘New Revisions to Rhode Island Expungement Rules Become Law’

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Questions for the Shelter Staff

By Mr. Joseph Perry

The pressure is on now for the shelter staff to find solutions for their mistakes, but the leaders of the management of the shelter are not really stepping forward to lead change for the staff. If staff is over-structured, the environment in the shelter will resonate in ways that will produce anger, resistance, and even defiance.

If constituents have no outlet to express these feelings, or are afraid to raise concerns with staff that have the power to ask them to leave, they may take their anger out on other constituents in the shelter. Continue reading ‘Questions for the Shelter Staff’

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People All Over the World Join Hands

By Jim Gillen

It’s a funny thing; perhaps as I am getting older, I tend to look back on songs to where I can trace certain “eras” of my life. The younger generation equates the above title with Coors Lite as the theme song! Lately, I’ve been hitting some of the funky trails, musically speaking that is. And “Love Train” has been jumping out.

When I look at the premise of Recovery, it’s based on love and understanding, joining hands, regardless of background etc. You know, a Love Train I have been running around preparing for National Recovery Month (September), with an emphasis on our State Rally For Recovery Event on Saturday, September 11, 2010. It will be held in downtown Providence, at Roger Williams National Memorial on North Main Street. And it has been a lot of fun. Very energizing. Very warm fuzzy and Love Trainny!! Continue reading ‘People All Over the World Join Hands’

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A Knish Tale

By Jim Gillen
The Providence Center

Do you know what a knish is? Well it sort of a potato pie, but with an attitude!! Just how I like them!

There is a little place on the Lower East Side of Manhattan called Yonah Schimel and it’s a knishery… They speak and live and breathe Knishes. I’ve been going there since my youth when my Dad, who drove a taxi back then, would bring me and its been a life long love affair.

I went to High School in Brooklyn and more often then not, we would cut class and jump the turnstiles on the subway for a joy ride into NYC. Usually downtown, the Village, the Lower East Side, Times Square when it was …lets say, lively!! Continue reading ‘A Knish Tale’

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Horizons for Homeless Children to Hold Conference in June

Horizons for Homeless Children is excited to announce our 5th Young Children Without Homes National Conference to be held June 15th, at the Hogan Center at College of the Holy Cross in Worcester, Massachusetts.  The conference, which will once again focus on the needs of young homeless children and their families, is a unique opportunity to raise national awareness about family homelessness and share local and national strategies for serving young children and families experiencing homelessness. Continue reading ‘Horizons for Homeless Children to Hold Conference in June’

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Common Sense

By Mr. Joseph L. Perry

In 2010 the shelters in the state have become increasingly overcrowded. The shelter system must be ready to make a change. The leaders of the shelter system must be confident and use common sense and experience and have high expectations to resolve their constituents’ personal problems. The shelter system is under pressure because of the increase of clients in the shelters, and they must live up to the pressure and expectations to find solutions for the homeless constituents.

The system must give the homeless community some memorable advice, and the leaders of shelters must be a force in the shelters.  The case managers must have energy and passion and must use their natural ability to make a big difference in the homeless shelters. Continue reading ‘Common Sense’

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Living in the shelter

By Joseph Perry

There’s no privacy. You are nearly strip searched every time you enter the shelter. When I first entered the shelter you were not allowed to bring in food.  You had to be up at 6:00 am, leave the building at 7:00 am and find some crappy breakfast. The staff stole from the constituents like there was no tomorrow and would get away with it.  Even if the constituents had some type of income, the staff wanted to control all of your affairs.  They’d tell clients that the money was being saved so that when they did find a place to move, they’d have moving expenses and money to help pay their security and rent.  However, when clients would find a place of their own, all of a sudden the funds they felt were saved didn’t match what was returned to them; or the staff would have some excuse as to why they couldn’t return the money.  Continue reading ‘Living in the shelter’

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Governor Cuts Housing for Most Vulnerable

Rhode Island Coalition for the Homeless

In disregard for the most vulnerable in our state, the Governor has zeroed out the Neighborhood Opportunities Program (NOP) in this year’s budget. NOP is currently RI’s most critical program for ending homelessness and developing affordable housing for low-income families.  It is the only RI program that enables developers to set rents low enough to serve very low-income households and people with disabilities. Continue reading ‘Governor Cuts Housing for Most Vulnerable’

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Mayor Pledges Family Service Centers at the State Of The City Address

By Catherine Rhodes

The Providence Career and Technical Academy, a new vocation high school which opened in September, 2009, was the stage for Mayor David Cicilline’s State of the City Address. The Mayor opened his address at 7pm on Tuesday, February 2, 2010, to a full auditorium of attendees. Continue reading ‘Mayor Pledges Family Service Centers at the State Of The City Address’

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When the Saints Go Marchin’ In

By Jim Gillen

As I sit here thinking and writing on the morning after the Saints Super Bowl Victory and on the eve of Fat Tuesday, the proverbial get your sins out of your system day, I am reminded of a city I know quite well. Continue reading ‘When the Saints Go Marchin’ In’

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A Step In The Right Direction: Amending State Police Monitoring Laws To Include Hate Crimes Against The Homeless

By Kristen Sherman

New bills have been introduced into the Rhode Island House and Senate that would expand police monitoring and reporting of “hate crimes” to include offenses against those who are homeless or perceived to be homeless. Under state law, the state police already monitor “hate crimes” that include “threatened, attempted, or completed acts that appear after investigation to have been motivated by racial, religious, ethnic, sexual orientation, as well as by gender or disability prejudice.” The records track the crimes by matters such as community in which the crime occurs, type of offense, and the target of the offense. If the proposed legislation passes, the monitoring system would also track crimes “motivated by prejudice against a person who is homeless or perceived to be homeless.” Continue reading ‘A Step In The Right Direction: Amending State Police Monitoring Laws To Include Hate Crimes Against The Homeless’

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Suicide Prevention at the VA

David Eisenberger

A.C.E. is the VA’s suicide prevention program.

The letters are an acronym that stands for the following:

A — Ask the veteran. (Try to interact in a manner that communicates concern and ask the question anytime you think the veteran’s a danger to him/herself). Continue reading ‘Suicide Prevention at the VA’

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